Phobic

For the first time my wife has examined my stepson’s behavior as being a little eccentric or even a little phobic.  She is not getting any dialogue from me which remarkably let’s her explore her own feelings without having to run to protect him against me.

She is not on guard as much when I don’t interfere is my suspicion.  This is not to say that I am abandoning him it is just that I am letting the atmosphere for change to occur without any verbal interjection on my behalf. 

What this allows is for more peace in my world and I don’t have to handle the ball as much.