As a step dad I need participation in the running of my home. When I feel like I am being used I try to filter it through my body instead of my brain. My brain can distort and deceive me. The question I ask myself is what do I want my marriage to look like? It is not only from the eyes of what my wife sees, expects to see, wants to see or even thinks she sees.
As a father a stepfather I have to define what I want and listen to what she wants. Let’s see if I have the courage to tell her what I want. She may just agree with it.
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